The following is a list of things I used to think about stuff. Enjoy.
“Don’t Stop ’till you get enough” you know, that song by the late Michael Jackson? Well, I’ve never really been able to understand his lyrics, and I always thought he was singing, “Don’t stop ’till you get it up.” Which, now that I have a slightly dirtier mind in my twenty six years of life sounds hilarious, and reminds me of something from The Office (I sure do miss TWSS jokes. Just not the same without ’em).
The gym I go to is comprised of a whole bunch of “beautiful people”. The YMCA offers healthy lifestyles to all different body types, but I feel as though the gym I’m a member of has only Ken and Barbie folks. Not only is EVERYONE seemingly easy on the eyes, they don’t seem to sweat. Or if they do, the girls still look pretty in their black spandex and sports bras, and the guys just look……..tough. I don’t know if everyone is covered in industrial strength hair spray, or tanning oil, or what.
and then there’s me. I take a medication that, in higher doses, causes excessive sweating ( yay Zoloft!), so here I am on the stationary bicycle literally dripping with sweat. By the time my forty minutes of riding is up, I look like I just stepped out of the shower. My appearance does not bring all the boys to the yard, let’s put it that way.
I had a boyfriend for a while, then at some point (my guess is after the first date), he decided he wasn’t ready for a relationship of the serious nature, and really wanted a woman who already had kids, or who did not want kids. Not only was I completely flabbergasted that someone as handsome as him could like me, but called me BEAUTIFUL. Holy Moly. AND he loved Jesus! It just seemed like we might have something going for us.
The next week, a friend complimented me, said he’d always though I was hot. Ahem. I think I just choked on my spit. Excuse me? Really? hot? It’s true. I’m hot. And sexy. We may have fooled around a little, and that made me feel loved in a way that never has made sense to me before. I’ve never had a positive experience with “intimacy”.
He was taken aback by the fact that I’m a virgin. I told him, yes, we virgins are much like Unicorns; we exist for those who believe. Don’t worry, I’m still a Unicorn.
I got my last hair cut from sweet Annie today. She and her husband, their ridiculous two wiener dogs and their baby Cooper who is still in the womb (apparently the size of a Chinese cabbage) are moving to Kansas. Like… Five hours away in Kansas. That’s too long a trip for my monthly hair cuts. I’ve always loved her spirit. She is probably the most content person I’ve ever met. In the six years I’ve known her so far, I think I’ve heard her complain a half dozen times. She loves Jesus, is teachable, loves her husband (they have one of the funniest relationships I’ve been privileged to see develop), is soft spoken, careful with her words, and absolutely gorgeous. And she cuts hur purty good, too. Her friend is taking her place, but it won’t be the same. Change is so hard for me sometimes. I will miss my friend Annie.
One time, in High School, my friend from the swim team and I hopped in her car, put on Norah Jones, and started driving. We didn’t stop for probably four hours. We just drove straight in one direction. Then we turned around and came home. It was one of the best afternoons of my life. Later on in our years in school she became addicted to Adderall, and any other pills she could score. Sometimes on our way to school she’d pull over, open the car door, vomit, and then we’d keep driving. She was a much better swimmer than I; she could have gotten a full ride scholarship, but liked escaping better than striving.
Sometimes when I eat Raman, and I’m slurping up the noodles (I’m sure you too are questioning why I’m still single, eh? eh?), some part of my childish brain pretends I’m the Loch Ness Monster, and I imagine myself emerging from the murky waters with seaweed in between my Monster teeth.
I’ve been trying to work out several times a week to try and get leaner arms and generally feel better about myself. Some of my coworkers use a pre-workout mix called Adrenaline, they say it makes you “mad” at the weights, and you seem to have a more productive workout. I’m gonna start trying it tomorrow, but, honestly, I am a little afraid it will make me crazy. Maybe not this crazy… But only time will tell.
Those are all the secrets I shall reveal at this time.
Thank you. Come again.